My husband and I have been married for quite a while and
have tried to have a child for many years with no success. We are deep in the
adoption process and have been notified by our social worker that a 2 yr. old
little girl is up for adoption from Mexico.
After seeing her picture we fall in love and ask what we need to
do. The social worker says she needs to
warn us before we move forward that the little girl is very healthy except for
the fact she is deaf. As a couple we
decide with some guidance we still want to move forward.
My husband and I both and make salaries that keep us both
very comfortable. We own our home, my
husband works 8-5 Monday through Friday and I work 9-6 with the option to work
from home. It has already been decided I
will begin working from home when we are able to adopt. Our families live close and have already
agreed to help in any way they can including daycare so I can either go into
the office or have time to work at home with no interruption.
The sector we will benefit the most from is Early Learning
and Development and Support needing services that will teach us to communicate
with the child preferable beginning before she comes home and continuing after
her arrival so that we as a couple and
our family can become comfortable with the situation. Specific services that will be needed is
classes that will teach us sign language in order to communicate, and family classes so that our immediate family can have some knowledge as well since they will be involved in her care too. A support group
that puts us with other parents in similar situations giving us the opportunity
the make friends, ask questions, and build a support base that we can call and
lean on when difficulties arise. When
the child arrives we need to have a child therapist in place that can work with
the child on communication and interactive skills so that when she begins
school she will have the basics necessary to communicate with the educators and
peers. With the help of our support
system we will look for a pediatrician that can help us take care of the health
needs of the child including making sure she is caught up on immunizations etc.
after she gets home.